“You need to be very comfortable in your own skin and you need to have a presence to be able to own a room. You need to be able to back yourself to speak up, have your say and not just blend in.”
When asked about balancing executive responsibilities with family life, Xanny is refreshingly candid about the realities. “It’s impossible. Everyone wants this really sexy answer. There is no formula, there is just survival and getting through it. It’s about teamwork at home. My husband does all the cooking, all the cleaning. He does the daycare pick up and drop off.”
She points to broader societal expectations that create this challenge: “They want you to work like you don’t have any children, but they want you to parent like you don’t work.”
For those considering careers in manufacturing, Xanny advocates for practical experience over formal education: “Getting out and about to actually see what manufacturing’s about is really important. I think university degrees are less and less important and it’s more about practical hands-on skills and knowledge to work your way up inside businesses.”
Her most direct counsel is straightforward and empowering: “Back yourself. There’s no boy tasks, there’s no girl tasks, there’s just tasks. Have a crack. Just go for it. You’re the sum of the five people that you hang out with most. Choose wisely who those five people are. Make sure you get someone that treats you like an equal.”
Through her leadership at her family’s dessert company, Xanny demonstrates how modern food manufacturing can balance large-scale production with artisanal quality, while breaking down gender barriers and reimagining what manufacturing environments and careers can look like in the 21st century.